Day 1: Developing Leadership Presence

🔹 Activity 1: The Leader’s Stance

Teach him the power of body language. Have him stand tall, make eye contact, and practice a firm handshake. Do role-play scenarios where he greets someone with confidence.

🔹 Activity 2: Giving Clear Instructions

Have him guide a family member through a simple task (e.g., “Tell me how to build a LEGO structure without showing me”). This improves his ability to direct others.

🔹 Activity 3: Storytelling Like a Leader

Have him tell a short story while you and others listen attentively. Teach him how leaders use their voice (pace, tone, and volume) to command attention.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Strong posture, clear communication, and storytelling skills help him naturally stand out and gain respect in social settings.

Day 2: Assertiveness & Decision-Making

🔹 Activity 1: The Power of Saying No

Role-play different situations where he must confidently say no (e.g., “Someone takes your toy without asking” or “A friend tells you to do something you don’t want to”).

🔹 Activity 2: Pick the Best Choice

Present three options for a fun activity or snack. He must decide quickly and explain why his choice is the best.

🔹 Activity 3: The Debate Game

Pick a simple topic (“Which is better: chocolate or vanilla ice cream?”) and have him argue his side with logic and confidence.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Being assertive without being aggressive is key to gaining respect and influence. Decision-making under pressure builds leadership qualities.

Day 3: Leading a Group

🔹 Activity 1: Command the Troops

Organize a simple game (e.g., Simon Says or a relay race) where he is the leader, giving instructions to others.

🔹 Activity 2: Public Speaking Practice

Have him stand in front of the family and introduce himself as if meeting a group of new people. He must be loud and clear. Use self confidence speaking flashcards for assistance.

🔹 Activity 3: Social Challenge

Start a Conversation – Take him to a park or gathering and challenge him to introduce himself to one new child and ask them a question.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

The ability to lead others, speak confidently, and approach new people increases his social status naturally.

Day 4: Competitive Mindset & Earning Respect

🔹 Activity 1: Friendly Competition

Play a game where winning requires both skill and mental toughness (e.g., a board game, racing, or sports challenge). Teach him to handle both winning and losing with class.

🔹 Activity 2: Teach Someone a Skill

Have him show a younger sibling or friend how to do something he is good at (e.g., tying shoelaces, dribbling a ball). Leading by example builds respect.

🔹 Activity 3: Stand Your Ground

Role-play a situation where someone disagrees with him. Teach him how to stay calm, state his opinion confidently, and not back down easily.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Dominance in a hierarchy isn’t just about winning—it’s about earning respect, teaching others, and standing firm on beliefs.

Day 5: Mastering Social Influence

🔹 Activity 1: Charisma Practice

Teach him how to compliment others naturally and genuinely. Have him practice giving praise to family members or friends.

🔹 Activity 2: The Power of Listening

Have him interview a family member about their favorite hobby or childhood story. Teach him that good leaders listen more than they talk.

🔹 Activity 3: The Crowd Game

In a group (family or friends), challenge him to get everyone to agree with him on a fun topic (e.g., “Pizza is the best food”). He must convince others without force—just using charm and reasoning.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Social dominance isn’t about control—it’s about influence. Learning to make others feel heard and valued naturally increases his status in any social group.

Day 6: Handling Pressure & Staying Cool

🔹 Activity 1: The Silent Leader Game

Play a game where he must lead a small activity (like a dance move or hand gestures) without speaking. He must use only gestures and eye contact to guide others.

🔹 Activity 2: Quick Decision Drill

Ask rapid-fire questions that require instant answers (e.g., "What would you do if a friend took your toy?" or "How would you respond if someone teased you?"). This helps him think under pressure.

🔹 Activity 3: The Freeze Challenge

Have him hold a power pose (feet apart, hands on hips) for 60 seconds while you try to distract him. This builds composure and body control.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Leaders stay composed under pressure. The ability to remain calm while others are flustered gives him an edge in social hierarchies.

Day 7: Winning Over Others

🔹 Activity 1: The Persuasion Challenge

Have him convince you why you should let him stay up 10 minutes later or get an extra treat. He must use reasoning, not whining.

🔹 Activity 2: The Mirror Game

Sit face-to-face and copy each other's movements. This improves social mirroring, an important trait of charismatic leaders.

🔹 Activity 3: Storytelling with Emotion

He must retell a story (real or made-up) using different emotions—excitement, suspense, or humor—to engage listeners.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Winning over people is a key skill in social dominance. Charismatic individuals can make people agree with them and enjoy their presence.

Day 8: Building a Strong Personal Brand

🔹 Activity 1: Dress Like a Leader

Teach him how clothes affect perception. Have him choose an outfit that makes him feel like a leader (even if it's just a superhero cape).

🔹 Activity 2: What’s Your Superpower?

Have him list his strengths and why they make him unique. Encourage him to talk about them confidently.

🔹 Activity 3: The Introduction Challenge

Take him somewhere new (park, store, or event) and challenge him to introduce himself to one new person with confidence.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

People remember strong personalities. Teaching him to present himself well builds a confident identity that others respect.

Day 9: Controlling the Frame

🔹 Activity 1: The "Yes, But" Game

One person says something negative (“You’re too young to lead”), and he must respond with “Yes, but…” and turn it into a positive statement.

🔹 Activity 2: Walk Like a Leader

Show him the difference between timid, unsure body language vs. confident strides. Have him practice walking into a room like he owns it.

🔹 Activity 3: The Opinion Flip

Pick a random topic (e.g., “Cats are better than dogs”). He must argue both sides confidently, switching back and forth.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

Leaders control the frame—they set the tone of discussions instead of being influenced by others.

Day 10: Establishing Authority Without Force

🔹 Activity 1: The “Lead Without Words” Challenge

He must get someone to follow his lead (like picking up toys or doing a task) without ordering them—just by setting an example.

🔹 Activity 2: Owning the Space

He must sit or stand in different areas of a room and practice claiming space without shrinking. Help him adjust his posture and positioning for presence.

🔹 Activity 3: The Social Test

At the dinner table or with friends, he must naturally steer the conversation toward a topic he chooses. He should do this subtly, not forcefully.

🟢 Why Does It Matter?

True dominance isn’t about force—it’s about influence. The most respected leaders don’t demand authority; they earn it through presence, confidence, and charisma.

This 10-day curriculum builds dominance and status in a way that is socially positive, helping your son gain leadership qualities, confidence, and respect from others.